Women can tell who the good guy is who’s trying to help them from the bad guys who’s trying to harm them. Pay attention to what they say and judge them by what they do. It’s easy to consistently lie with words but impossible to consistently lie with your deeds.
Men have to earn the right to protect and provide for women. They have to prove themselves to be as selfless as possible. Dependable, reliable and able to survive against all odds. Character and attitude matter. Fitness both mental and physical are important. Strong communication skills are essential. You need to be a good listener and trustworthy to keep her thoughts, opinions and needs at the centre of all you do so you can truly be reliable to act in both of your best interests at all times.
Women have to earn the right to be protected and provided for by men. They have to prove themselves to be caring, kind and loving. Respect and dignity matter. Character and attitude are essential. You need to be physical and mentally strong but not necessary overboard with it. Moderation is good. You need to be a good listener and submissive to follow and obey directions. You need to be trustworthy to be able to communicate with men to tell them what you need, want and desire. Faithfulness, loyalty and respect are required.
All these things and qualities have to be cultivated by men and women in unison. Relationships and marriages are a two way street. The more a man proves himself to the woman the more she is able to trust him to submit to his orders and directions knowing her best interests are being taken into account. They repay each with loyalty, faithfulness, love and respect.
The more they communicate with each other the better they’ll understand each other. The happier and more loving the relationship. As both will be able to know more to trust each and further develop the necessary qualities they need each other to cultivate.
Pick up artists spend their twenties banging as many women as possible yet when they hit their early thirties they demand to marry virgins. Yet they never seem to grasp that throughout their youth they were making sure those type of women didn’t exist.
Trust, respect and love are important qualities. They are more valuable than gold. Since they have to be earned from those around you. Once you have them you are richer than rich. When you lose them you are poorer than poor.
Anyone who demands respect, love or trust will never get it. If you don’t prove yourself worthy of love, respect and trust. Then all you’re going to get in return is mistrust, hate and disrespect. Those that do bow before your demands of love, trust, respect are only doing it because of fear, shame and guilt. That’s why you cannot demand respect, love or trust. It has to be earned.
If you tell a group of people that they have no future then you’ll be shocked to discover than any incentive for them to care, love, respect, help or listen to others suddenly disappears. Why would a group of people help or respect other groups if they have no future? Most people abide by rules and regulations because they’re concerned about the consequences in the future. But if that incentive is destroyed by convincing people they don’t have one. Then I’m afraid law and order and respect for rules and regulations will quickly break down since any incentive to be law abiding become obsolete.
If a group of people are told they have no future yet you expect them to assist others in having one. Don’t be surprised when the results are not what you expect. After all why help others have a future that you’ve been told you no longer have? Any incentive to do so has been destroyed. Therefore the group of people who believe they have no future will see others as competition and will treat them as such. Any willingness to be kind or helpful towards them has been made obsolete as a result of having been told that they have a future and you don’t.